Whoa! It’s almost a half year I found myself not taking care of this blog
because reality keeps me too busy and its hella one of good excuse, right? and surprisingly, I found a lot of new comments in notifications! Thank you for all of you who had visited my blog, finally I could really start having some discussions with people *so glad I couldn’t cover it hihihi*
So now, I’m back for my sake of sanity. I feel unhappy for the last few months asking some existentialist questions to myself and finally ended by browsed some self-help articles by googled “20’s Confusing” keyword. Yeah, apparently it comes earlier to me I guessed. I feel unhappy but don’t know why, I feel my life is not fulfilling me, I feel that my life isn’t supposed to be like this, I feel I losing hope on civilization, I think that world sucks, the system sucks and all I want to have is moving to another planet, I feel like my life should be more meaningful than this but don’t know exactly what to do blah blah blah etc etc etc I bet you, Randomers are not here to read my complains of life, right? Guess what? I am not the only one. There are bunch of these Y Generations feeling what I feel
now I realized that I’m not that special actually, ha! joked. Instead of me analyzing myself and cover it on my blog where millions of netters could unveiled who exactly I am yes don’t tell anyone, I’m an alien from Saturn, err no I am not, I found the greatest article among them (well, this one is highly subjective) and I think I should re-post this to remind me again whenever I’m losing my grip again *ceilah gaya banget dah ah guah
Here you go: A Cheat Sheet For Winning At Life In Your 20s brought to you by this
- Your undergraduate degree is only as relevant as you want it to be. If it gets you the job of your dream — great! If not, show how your entire college experience makes you valuable in the “real world.”
- If you know you want an advanced degree, get it done early. It gets harder as you get older.
- If you can work for a company that will pay for your advanced degree, do it. It’s a small price to pay.
- Institutions are not the only place where you learn. If you can teach yourself a valuable skill through reading and practicing on your own time, do it.
- Even the shittiest job has something to teach you. Learn it.
- Decide your “why” for working. If you want to make a lot of money, be willing to potentially sacrifice time, effort, and personal satisfaction. If you want to be happy in your chosen field, be willing to sacrifice money. The two, however, needn’t be mutually exclusive.
- Have a side hustle. We live in uncertain times and if you can be in charge of how much you make in one stream of income, you will be better off.
- Never ever stop networking.
- Don’t be afraid to try something you never thought you’d do.
- Know more than your resume.
- Never burn bridges no matter how awful your boss and coworkers are.
- Don’t become your career.
3. Love – Family and Friends
- Your family probably still knows you the best and are still likely the people who will have your back when shit hits the fan. Appreciate them.
- Realize that your parents really do want what is best for you. Given that they probably have vast years of life experience on you, they’re advice is worth at the very least, taking into consideration.
- Your family will disagree with some of your choices. Accept it.
- Your friend group will shrink. Live with it.
- Don’t be afraid to break-up with bad friends.
- Never become the sucky friend who is in a relationship and forgets about their friendships.
- Be intentional about the people you want in your life.
- Be the friend you would want to have.
4. Love – Romance
- Be in love and happy with who you are, first and foremost.
- You may have feelings for someone but if you know they are bad for you, take to your heels.
- Stop believing that someone is going to change for you.
- Before you move for love, make sure you’ll be happy with where you move to too.
- Enjoy the times you’re single. You might not always get to be selfish.
- Whether you’re single or in a relationship, realize that it is a choice. If you want to make a different choice, recognize the sacrifices that will inevitably need to be made.
- Your heart will likely be broken by someone. No matter who, when, why, and how, never ever let someone else make you bitter.
- Be willing to take the risk of getting rejected for the reward of falling in love.
- Try some form of online dating at least once.
- Ask someone out the old-fashioned way at least once, whether you’re a guy or girl.
5. Life & Miscellaneous
- If you want something, promise yourself that you’ll at least try no matter how unworthy or unprepared you think you are.
- Actually learn from your mistakes. If you see a pattern — stop, find the source, make a change.
- Ask for help when you need it. Even from mum and dad. There is no shame in needing help.
- Put yourself in uncomfortable situations, on purpose.
- Don’t take advantage of the people who help you by becoming complacent and irresponsible.
- Pay your bills on time.
- Be nice to your landlord, your credit card company, customer service, etc. They can be understanding if things get tough.
- Attempt to budget. Keep attempting.
- Save what you can. Even if it’s $5 a week. Do it.
- Whenever you can, travel. Even if it’s within your borders.
- Sales are good. Free is still better and nothing to be ashamed of.
- Don’t compare yourself to your peers.
- Recognize that no one expects you to have it all figured out. But don’t be a hot mess ALL the time either.
- Have fun or when you hit 30, you’ll wish you had fun.
- Work hard. Play maybe as hard, but not harder. Sleep.
- For every current big, awful, problem (see: problem that is not that big in the grand scheme of life), remember the last big, awful problem that you had, and that you came through it.
- Be grateful for at least one thing every day.
- Always believe that whatever is meant to be, will happen.
- Yeah, so have fun with this. I said it was a cheat sheet, I didn’t say it’d be a short one!
It’s like a full package of the best of the best I could take from what I browsed, is well- written, thanks for the Author! Feel free to share it if you think it’s, worth to share 😉
Olga “I’m feeling like 22” Florentyna